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Has been months to years since you were looking for that pious Muslim mate? Have you put your biodata on CNN, Shaadi.com, CareerBuilder.com and still no results? Did the aunties poke you in weddings and say "you next" and yet they didn't find anyone for you? Don't worry there is someone for you and that person is right for you because Allah made that person for you.
Allah tells us in Surah Ar-Rum (30), Verse 21:
And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.
So Allah, our creator, promised us that we will get someone. And that individual will be the best one for us. Muslim brothers, even if you don't get your fantasy of four wives, insha'Allah you will get at least one person in this duniya if you behave. Allah mentions this in Surah Ad-Dhariyat (51), Verse 49:
And of every thing We have created pairs: That ye may receive instruction.
So brothers and sisters, you may not get the person you wanted for whatever reason, but it may be for the best, because Allah has someone better for you than who he wanted you to marry. Allah said in Surah Al-Baqarah (2), Verse 216:
Fighting is prescribed for you, and ye dislike it. But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knoweth, and ye know not.
The following is music video of the song "For the Rest of My Life" by the Muslim singer Maher Zain. It's a nice song about Allah's blessing of a loving spouse. Enjoy!
