What Men Want These Days

You know ladies, there's always talk about what women want but you know it takes two to tango. Did you ever consider what men want? Nowadays, it's always about the demand of the women and how to please her. Muslim sisters nowadays can reject or accept proposals because at the end of the day it's the decision of the sister because she has to give up the most.  For marriage, sisters have to give up their family who raised her, her house she grew up in, and most of the time her last name which identifies her family background.  With all the sacrifices the women make, you still should look into what men want. Sisters who cannot get married or still haven't found anyone should really look into what men want and should compromise WITHOUT compromising your own values.

Men Are Simple
Whether you like it or not, men are simple creature. There is such thing as "guys are complicated".  Guys are rational, and they are straightforward, and they will not play games.  Sisters, remember all guys are not the same but they all want the same thing.  After marriage, you give them these things, and he will treat you like a queen inshaAllah.  Guys want the following:

• Guys love food; to reach a man's heart, go through his stomach, which is a universal fact for all men.
• Nurturing; as in taking care of him, such as giving him a massage after a hard days work as a small example.
• Love and love making.
• Guys want loyalty; that means, don't go check out or flirting with other men, even if it seems harmless to you, it's very harmful to your marriage and your relationship with your husband.  (And this goes the same for the guys in relation to their wives.)

Men Want a Wife Not Another Income
Men want a wife who can take care of them. Men don't want to deal with career oriented women. It's okay to have a career as a woman but keep in mind, men want a wife and not another income. If you think your husband will compromise himself for your career then I can assure you that you will have a difficult time finding your special someone. If you want a career, then try to make your career around your family and not the other way around.  It's in a man's nature to find someone who will burn the fire of love at home.

Men Want a Partner Not a Boss
The wives in the families keep the family together so they have authority in the family. However, with that authority don't think that you can put your husband on a leash. Look at the Western society and how family life is breaking down, and it starts with the mutual respect between the spouses. The wife is the glue to the entire family.  Allah (SWT) created women perfectly to attract her male partner.  A women's voice, her body's shape, her beautiful face, her facial glow, her soft skin, and her love is what makes her feminine.  A woman's love is unmatched; no money in the world can match up to a woman's love and for that reason ladies, you should choose well and give your love to a deserving man.  With that said, the man will give you back that love and more.

If anything I said is wrong, it came from my faults, and I ask you to forgive me, and if I said anything good then it came from Allah (SWT). Ameen.