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I don't always say this, but guys, you should be consistent in treating your partner with respect even when she is not respectful to you. Females are complicated and they are not logical all the time, hence, they may say things that will hurt you and disrespect you. However, that's no excuse for you to retaliate or hurt them. Allah loves those who are patient. So be patient with your partner and give them the benefit of doubt. Maybe your partner is going through something and they're unable to express it to you. If you ask what's wrong, and they'll tell you "I'm fine", which basically means she's not fine, but sit next to her and offer your shoulder for her to lean on.
Ladies, you are not off the hook yet. How is it that girls cannot remember to turn off and unplug their hair straightener, but can remember what their partner said 5 years ago at 11:50 PM? It's funny but true.
At the end of the day, all I'm saying is, guys are logical and for that reason, they have their heads together (for the most part), and in doing so, they should be patient with their female partners.
Remember Allah (SWT) is watching and will reward you for your patience.
